Anyone else's family give them a hard time about being EHS?

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Anyone else's family give them a hard time about being EHS?

electrohypersensitive
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My family, as intelligent as they are, give me a hard time about my EHS.  They don't really believe me, or rather, they do, but there's some resistance there.  Anyone else's family give them a hard time about this?  

I'm thinking, the least they can do is do some research but they have a hard time believing something so prevalent could be so bad.  "If it were this bad, we'd all know about it."

There's eye-rolling when I say I can't be near the TV, they leave their phones laying around...

They're great in many ways, but they fail here.  They get mad because "what if someone calls?"  Well... isn't my health a priority here?   I get that you want to be near your phone, but what about my health?  

Am I being too hard on them, or are they just being aholes?  Should I say nothing about the phones laying around, even though I feel like it's killing me?  I've gotten a lot better, but still, I want to avoid exposure as much as I can.  I'm being pretty strict about this because I want to heal.

This is begging the question:  How can they say they love me but then treat me this way?

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I set a new role in my family, which say that when I am around, and in my house and yard, cellphones and wireless devices are not working. 
If someone does not respect this, I simply leave. 
I will not be going to his place again nor will invite him over. 
If I feel bad because some left his phone working, I simply leave.
I did it a few times, now all my, and my wife family respect this.
All the best
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On Sun, Jul 3, 2016 at 6:11 AM, electrohypersensitive [via ES] <[hidden email]> wrote:
My family, as intelligent as they are, give me a hard time about my EHS.  They don't really believe me, or rather, they do, but there's some resistance there.  Anyone else's family give them a hard time about this?  

I'm thinking, the least they can do is do some research but they have a hard time believing something so prevalent could be so bad.  "If it were this bad, we'd all know about it."

There's eye-rolling when I say I can't be near the TV, they leave their phones laying around...

They're great in many ways, but they fail here.  They get mad because "what if someone calls?"  Well... isn't my health a priority here?   I get that you want to be near your phone, but what about my health?  

Am I being too hard on them, or are they just being aholes?  Should I say nothing about the phones laying around, even though I feel like it's killing me?  I've gotten a lot better, but still, I want to avoid exposure as much as I can.

How can they love me but still treat me this way?




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April R
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Oh boy, this is always a really incindiary subject for both sides.  I say, if it's actually your own house it's your rules (obviously) and if they can't deal that's their problem.  But if you're elsewhere... the main reason people are so resistant to the idea in my experience is because if they acknowledge that ES could be a potential problem, then it affects them and their lives even if they can't sense it themselves.  And most people don't want that hassle no matter how much they claim to care about you.  I've had plenty of people both family and friends sort of stop talking to me because of this over the years.  Those technological addictions are very, very powerful, especially since it's been integrated so far into what the majority would consider 'normal society'.  By that definition, we're not normal by a long-shot, and that can be darn scary and make for a rather emotion-charged subject.  So, yes, you have to take steps to protect your health, but at the same time realize that your condition doesn't just affect you when it changes how you can interact with others - who will sometimes resent this.
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Patricia
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On Jul 2, 2016, at 10:11 PM, electrohypersensitive [via ES] wrote:

How can they love me but still treat me this way? 

i'm sorry, EHS, that your family is not helpful to you when it comes 
to EMFs.  people really don't get it.  what has helped me where i 
live is to simply ask if someone forgot to take their computers or 
phones to their own space... because i can feel it in my space... 
cramps or pains or whatever sensation THAT particular technology 
produces in my body... and my space is FAR from their space.  

they eventually get it that i can feel it, because i only complain 
when there really truly is a device nearby. and thankfully i don't 
have to throw a hissy fit these days to get my point across.  

honor thy canaries in the mine shaft and protect them before we
all go extinct.  

it's taken years, tho... and i don't think the human race has years 
to catch on.  we had better wise up more quickly.  this is what 
comes of allowing corporations to run the world... they set the 
standards, write the laws, sell the public relations pitch...  it's a 
rigged system.  

John D Rockefeller said, "I want to OWN nothing and CONTROL 
everything."  that is how things work these days.  the monied 
'elite' own shares in all the major corporations, install their 
minions to either run or at least advise that particular industry, 
and they are answerable to no one.  when a cell phone tower 
proposal CANNOT be denied due to laws in place that allow 
cell phones to take precedence over health concerns - you 
KNOW you're in a low or no human-rights area.  

love, patricia 

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Hawk
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electrohypersensitive. interesting topic..

My argument to a non understading person was. "how do you explain heat to a person who cant feel heat?"
my new argument : "how do you explain or define a smell?"   Energy is hard to explain. Stress people understand.. Constant energetic "external" stress.. hmmm.. just trying to help here.
People who are energy aware do understand better than people with the materalistic mind set.


what did you do to get better ?
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electrohypersensitive
Thanks all.

Hawk:  Reducing my exposure, no more wifi, smart meter, etc.  Energy work has helped a lot.  Emotion code, NAET, Eden Energy Medicine.  My weighted wrap.  I think I have to de-stress........I think that's what caused half of it...
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Hawk
interesting. I used also alot of energy work.. could for 2-3 hours, but when i got into a radiation zone my field just scrambled/collapsed again.  So lots of work for feeling better in a non radiation zone, but it didn't help me feeling stronger in a radiation zone.  do you agree on this point ?

Donna edens book kind of saved me when  I was on my most sensitive.
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electrohypersensitive
Her book also saved me!!  I  mean SAVED ME because I had nowhere else to go......

I agree to a point.  When I had my aura patched up by a psychic, I felt an immediate improvement, and it was pretty drastic.  And it didn't revert.  And as I've healed, I'm able to be in front of cell phones now and not feel as bad as I did before.  Have you heard of weighted wraps?  This has helped me immensely.  I have a hard time doing Donna's techniques sometimes because I feel like they wipe me out, but when I use the wrap, I feel calmer.  My Triple Warmer is calming down and as she says, when TW is in overdrive environmental illnesses often develop.  I've been less EMF sensitive in the month I've had my wrap :)  Hope this helps
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Hawk
I agree it can be a hassle to the exercises every day.

what is this wrap ? how du you use it ?  

does it calm triple warmer ?
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SuperLaura
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It takes time for people to come around.

My husband is pretty awesome now, but it took a few years to get to this point. He's at the point that he's willing to buy a house out in the country so I can get better. When I first starting getting really sick and didn't even know what was wrong my husband thought it was all in my head. I was having terrible headaches for about 2 months straight and couldn't get out of bed except for maybe 3 hours a day. It was one of the hardest times in my life when he didn't believe something was really wrong with me. The only thing I knew to do was to try to eat healthy so I begged to get a juicer and started detoxing and juicing. I felt like I was dying and none of the doctors I had seen said there was anything wrong with me and I didn't know what else to do. Fortunately my husband suggested that I go to see a naturopath doctor and he went with me and when he saw that there were numerous things that were wrong and that I was really sick things started to change. He has since apologized and has been gotten better over the past few years, little by little. But it was a huge struggle and fights and difficulties getting there. And even when you get there people can still get annoyed with having to turn off their phones, lug around lots of cords since they can't go wireless or when they trip over cords etc. Lol. And people still forget and leave their phones on or turn on the wireless and forget to turn it off. You have to be patient with them but firm about what you need. People may care they just don't get it or don't believe you.. Which is really hurtful to the emf sufferer. Just keep trying to talk to them. Eventually they may remember even if you just bug them about it enough.. And don't feel bad about reminding them a lot. And it's like others have already said, if it's your own house it's your rules and if they can't abide they need to leave.. If you are sharing a house you need to talk and make agreements and arrangements and find some kind of compromise. If they can't compromise then maybe you have to find your own place alone or with more understanding people. EHS can be very isolating. Sometimes you can't go anywhere because you can't control your environment or other people, and if friends or family want to see you, you have to say: okay but these are my conditions. If you want to see me then phones must be off or on airplane while I am at the house etc otherwise I can't come because my health is more important.

I have compromised by visiting my parents a few times for the holidays without asking them to do anything, but now if they want to see me they have to come to my house and they have to follow my rules with their phones.

There are always solutions, sometimes people just don't want to go through the headache or time to make adjustments- such as having a google phone number on a hard wired laptop or iPad to call and message instead of using a cell phone. Having a landline for calls if someone really needs to get ahold of someone at home, etc.
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electrohypersensitive
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Well the EMF's drain my energy so much that doing the energy exercises drain me even further.....

The weighted wrap  is based on the premise that deep pressure calms you down and increases serotonin.  You can google it; it calmed my triple warmer a LOT.  I always felt somewhat fried before, now I'm feeling more like my old self...
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electrohypersensitive
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Well it's good to hear I'm not alone!  

And I too thought I was dying.  I just felt like my brain and body were constantly shutting down.  Horrible stuff.  But nice to hear that your husband came around, and maybe that's just kind of common.