RE: Husbands Anonymous

Posted by Loni Rosser on
URL: https://www.es-forum.com/Magnetic-Therapy-tp1550371p1550453.html

Ian you are a saint! This is such a great idea. My relationship has suffered severely since my injury/illness. I hope Sue know how lucky she is to have you. It is so commendable that you are on this support group trying to help her as you are. I know more than a few of us ladies would love to have apartner as open minded & caring as you are.
 
I hope that you or someone does start this group. It is soooooooo needed! Probably Partner or Spouse Anonymous as to not rule out any gender.
 
I sent it to my husband & can't wait for feedback. Loni

--- On Mon, 9/14/09, kenneth lederman <[hidden email]> wrote:


From: kenneth lederman <[hidden email]>
Subject: RE: [eSens] Husbands Anonymous
To: [hidden email]
Date: Monday, September 14, 2009, 8:41 AM


 



   I'm also interested in husbands anonymous.  Both my wife and I areretired and have MCS, but only she is emf sensitive.                                       Ken

--- On Mon, 9/14/09, S.T. <stcro@rogers. com> wrote:

From: S.T. <stcro@rogers. com>
Subject: RE: [eSens] Husbands Anonymous
To: eSens@yahoogroups. com
Date: Monday, September 14, 2009, 11:20 AM

Hi Ian, yes and  while you are it, please ask if there are any available partners caregivers willing to enter a relationship with ES people, provided they wanted to help out like you are doing, as oppose to running away at the first symptom.  I hope Marc is not cringing "Is she nuts, this isnot a dating site" LOL,  I AM KIDDING. In this misery of a condition Istill find I need to laugh.
 
Ian you are doing such a great job helping your spouse that the rest ofus can only admire and congratulate your effort. 
 
 My hat off to you and those that work so hard to help their partners. Good Bless!

Sandra
 

--- On Sun, 9/13/09, Ian Kemp <ianandsue.kemp@ ukgateway. net> wrote:

From: Ian Kemp <ianandsue.kemp@ ukgateway. net>
Subject: RE: [eSens] Husbands Anonymous
To: eSens@yahoogroups. com
Received: Sunday, September 13, 2009, 4:56 PM

 

I wonder sometimes if I should set up a group called "Husbands (or
Spouses/Partners) Anonymous" to help the partners of ES people and, hence,
ES'sers themselves! Having been through it myself I can see how tough it is
for someone when their partner starts experiencing symptoms which seem to
defy all normal experience and "common sense". It would be good to help
relationships by reassuring people that neither they nor their partner is
suffering delusions, nor is it psychosomatic, and that there are other
people around who have gone through this too.

I feel I was fortunate in that I had already gone through the "disbelief
phase" when Sue developed MCS and started reacting to perfumes, household
chemicals, weedkiller and traffic fumes. We then agreed together to try a
new doctor and we were both there when he used a machine which caused her to
start developing ES symptoms within an hour. I'd been a bit surprised at the
time that 3 Ghz microwave radiation was being used unshielded, and I knew
that neither Sue or I had ever heard of ES, so there was no danger that we
were "imagining she'd got something we'd seen on the internet". Even with
this knowledge, I still found it hard to cope over the following months as
Sue gradually became sensitive to mobile phones, computers, TV's, household
electricity and even the earpieces of normal phones, and her associated fear
as the environment around her became "unsafe". We had a complete range of
reactions from our friends, who varied from the highly supportive to the
totally incredulous, and sadly we have lost some long-standing friendships
as a result. On the other hand some casual friendships became deeper - for
example with my boss whose daughter had dust mite allergy and other mild MCS
symptoms.

Would be interested in others' views on this! Mostly it is sceptical
husbands who seem to be mentioned - not sure if wives are usually more ready
to believe, or that more women than men get ES (or both factors together).

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From: eSens@yahoogroups. com [mailto:eSens@ yahoogroups. com] On Behalf Of
Jennie Wassenaar
Sent: 11 September 2009 18:07
To: eSens@yahoogroups. com
Subject: Re: [eSens] Magnetic Therapy

That is incredible that you have to go to the park and sleep! I had never
thought of that option, I am hoping that some of the adjustments I am making
will help. I have talked to my husband about turning off the breaker at
night but unfortunately he is not willing to make that inconvenience to help
me. Thanks for the suggestions, if you think of anything else let me know.

Have a great day,

Jennie

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From: Loni <loni326@yahoo. <mailto:loni326% 40yahoo.com> com>
To: eSens@yahoogroups. <mailto:eSens% 40yahoogroups. com> com
Sent: Friday, September 11, 2009 11:41:29 AM
Subject: Re: [eSens] Magnetic Therapy

Are you turning all the electric off at the breaker at night? I have to go
to the park & sleep (camp) due to the masts here. Loni

--- On Thu, 9/10/09, Jennie Wassenaar <ad-in@ameritech. net> wrote:

From: Jennie Wassenaar <ad-in@ameritech. net>
Subject: [eSens] Magnetic Therapy
To: "EMS" <eSens@yahoogroups. com>
Date: Thursday, September 10, 2009, 8:46 PM

Does anyone have any information or experience with magnetic therapy?

I had sent an e-mail a few months back regarding my inability to get a good
night's sleep after they upgraded a mast near our home (1/2 mile). It's been
4 months and I still have not had a good nights sleep but it has improved by
taking Melatonin and doing some magnetic therapy. I'd like to hear some feed
back on long term/on going magnetic therapy.

Thanks,

Jennie

PS we will be taking delivery of a sleep number mattress soon (air chambers
with no metal springs) and I'm crossing my fingers that it will help me get
a good nights sleep.

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